Family Traditions: Celebrate First Day of Spring

Here is a fun ritual to do with your kids every year to celebrate the first day of spring.

Paint the Rocks
One way to symbolize and celebrate the transformation from winter to spring is to color your surroundings. If its not raining grab some washable poster paints in primary colors and some big paint brushes. Pour small amounts of paint into paper cups for portability, and go paint any rocks you've got on your property. Paint pictures of flowers, write words and be creative. You might want to add favorite warm weather activities, like kite flying or bubble blowing, and mix up the season's first pitcher of lemonade.





Family Traditions inspired by Meg Cox

Is Organic NOT in your budget?

My organic journey started 13 years ago but it wasn't until I had my daughter I put it into effect. Who knew that one day we would be researching the foods that we eat? If you buy an apple then your eating an apple, right? The way this country has changed they way we farm is why organic farming is so important. I have watched many documentaries and done my own research which is why I choose to be organic.

I remember when I started buying organic and some of my friends and family would criticize me. They would say things like "why do you buy into that and pay more, it's all the same", "we didn't eat organic foods and we are fine". At first I couldn't understand why so many people felt they needed to comment about the type of food I was buying. You don't see me running around saying " oh that's gross, how could you eat that meat full of hormones and antibiotics"? Then I got to thinking that maybe they were uneducated or embarrassed they couldn't buy organic foods for home which is why I wanted to write about this topic.

First you have to decide if investing in your health now is worth it in the long run. I personally believe that if you give your body what it needs it will thrive and do its thing. Start out small by purchasing organic milk or foods that you eat the most of in your daily diet. Before you know it each time you go to the food store you will little by little buy more. Shop places like Trader Joes they have a great selection of foods at a fair price. We live in the garden state so shop farmers markets. I would recommend red bank farmers market on Sundays at the galleria. Dean's natural food market also has items fair priced. Wegmans is my favorite place to shop for organic items because the selection is large but I can also get all my shopping done and not waste my day running around. Let's not forget about taking advantage of a sale! Blueberries are an example of something you could buy in bulk and freeze.

If you have a green thumb grow your very own organic garden but don't be surprised if you have too much to handle. The last time I had a garden we had so much food we were giving away bags of veggies. Not a bad problem to have.

If your still not sure what foods you should buy here is a list of 12 foods to eat organic. Found on the daily green "the dirty dozen". The latest list of foods with the highest pesticide residue.

* apples
* celery
* strawberry
* peaches
* spinach
* nectarines (imported)
* grapes (imported)
* sweet bell peppers
* potatoes
* blueberries
* lettuce
* kale

If your serious about wanting to make a change to organic foods start out small and do research. You won't be able to keep your kids from eating junk food but why not build the foundation and create a balance. Currently in my household my daughter and I are 80% organic and my husband 0%. Don't be discouraged if not everyone in your household is on board. Like I said little by little and lead by example. Sooner or later it might catch on.

To get you started here are some great web sites to check out. Be well!!

www.foodmatters.tv
 http://www.takepart.com/foodinc
http://www.thedailygreen.com/
 http://www.naturalnews.com/
 http://www.hungryforchange.tv/

Taking Mommy Time

I am a firm believer in creating balance in every aspect of my life. Sounds hard but for me I keep it simple. If I eat a bag of chips at lunch then I eat an apple for a snack. If I am having a lazy weekend and spend it on the sofa then I take a day to deep clean the house. Now when it comes to mommy time that hasn't always been so easy.

August 2011 I started Organic Moms Playgroup. My intention was to create a group of moms and kids and schedule playdates. I started to realize it was difficult to really get to know any of the moms at the playdates because we were chasing around our little ones. I started scheduling wine and tea social hour for just moms at my house twice a month. It has been awesome! Some moms hang for the hour and others stay for three. Just to get out of the house on a week day night gives you that balance you need.

As women we wear many hats. When we have our mommy hat on its sometimes hard to put the ME hat back on and not feel guilty. Don't feel guilty. It's easy to take time out even if it's once a week. I would recommend leaving the house and go out. Putting the kids to bed at night and catching up on your favorite show is not mommy time, it's unwinding. Join a moms group, a walking group or anything your interested in. Meetup.com is loaded with groups in your area. Schedule time with one of your girlfriends and go shopping. A walk along the boardwalk or reading a book in the park. It doesn't matter what you do or when you do it just do it! Notice I didn't mention anything about a date night with your husband? That because this isn't about the balance between kids and realationship it's about what you are doing for yourself.

I will say it again it's about balance. We continue to give give give and you must also receive. To me mommy time means doing something you always wanted to do. So pick up that book you haven't had time to read, take that sewing class you have been talking about taking for over a year now and just DO IT!

Your kids will be glad you did.

Moving Day... 5 kids!!! Omg

Here we go it's moving day but thank god not for me, for my BF.
Imagine two sets of twins + 1 and it's already 6pm. No naps just snacks. Little by little boxes are being unpacked but just when you think you made a dent, turn around and the toddler tornado blew through.

Waiting on the moving truck for the next load. It's a ten minute break... Silence... Not for long crying bust out in one room. "She hit me, I have to pee, he isn't my friend anymore." Cry cry cry scream scream scream. Oh wait... We need to make room for the bedroom furniture. Ok here we jump up start moving stuff around again. Running running running. STOP RUNNING IN THE HOUSE!! Lol it never stops. Oh crap the twins locked themselves in the bedroom. Who has the key?

It's that time for me to head home. Cook dinner, give baby girl a bath, take a shower and get ready for mommy time.

Once upon a time, revenge then red widow. Is it 8pm yet?

OrganicMoms Blogging

Here we go Organic Moms!! Who is ready to start blogging with me? The idea behind the organic moms playgroup was to connect moms and kids. Lets take it a step further and connect through blogging. Start discussions, share experiences, ask questions. Currently there are 122 members and counting. Moms are from all over the area and growing. 

I look forward to connecting with you!

Eco-Mom

April Velotti

www.meetup.com/organic-moms-on-the-go